First Date Turn to be Last One? : Learn" 13 THINGS You SHOULDN'T DO if you want to get a Second! " :)

Find The Reason Why You Have Been Rejected After Your First Date! 

Don't make that Date into a Wrong Day.

You don't have to be an expert dating to know that "It doesn't matter if it's a first Blind Date but definitely the First Impression is what it counts when you wanna start dating someone!" :) 

1. Appearance Counts~! . First of all. Where are you guys going? What you gonna wear? It doesn't have to be expensive clothes to have 'Good style'. Love doesn't come from the eyes but attraction does and Love definitely comes from being attracted to someone. You don't necessarily have to be a ' Prom Queen or King ' but you don't want to be the 'Clown' too. So don't use too much make up or too messy!

2. Don't be late~!  I don't care if you gonna wear your tennis shoes or your heels but being a boy or girl in that case doesn't make an excuse for running late! We all have the same time, there's no different clock for any gender so be on time! 

3. Democracy decisions~!  I think in most of the cases 'The girl' is who get the opportunity to choose everything but sometimes it is really a pleasure for us to see if the guy actually get the initiative to surprise her with really good choices to hang out. Maybe he could just give her some good options for her to choose what she prefer to eat or get to know her a little bit better and try to make a 'Good Choice' to impress her. It actually works! 

4. Eat a little, talk more~!  Sometimes we get so 'nervous' that we don't really even touch our plate, that's not the point. Just take 'Small' bites if you don't wanna look that 'Hungry'! But don't forget to talk to avoid that awkward 'Silence pauses' you are not dating a dead person at a funeral after all! ;)

5. Don't let her pay, don't let him think you want him to pay~! I know this may sound 'Cliche' but if he is a ' gentleman ' and really interested on you he will pay the check, is the first date after all. It is a golden rule, every smart guy with the right balls inside the pants would know it. But every single 'Lady' will know that she doesn't need to look too confident or abusive letting him pay everything, so to be respectful and be respected back we 'girls' should offer to help him pay the bill, so he is the one who has the answer to say if he is gonna pay all or not.

6. Don't talk about your 'Exes'~!  This may sound 'Stupid' but still always happens! If you are tasting a 'New food' do you really wanna remember and talk about the 'Last worst toxic evil food' you have eaten that made you wanna throw up?  - Of course not, exactly! That's my point! The past is in the past. Live your present! If you wanna talk about your 'Ex' why don't you guys go back together and you stop pretending you are over him or her? Let's be honest. If you still talk, you still care and if you still care, you still have feelings for her or him and you are not ready to date again! So don't do it or don't date again until you're really ready!

7. Don't exaggerate things~! I am serious about this. You are just starting to know this person in a 'Romantic way' so don't scare him or her talking about the 'future' yet. You don't even know if there's gonna be ever any future to talk about... Other way You could automatically turn your 'First' date to your 'Last' date. Don't say things like "When we start dating for real" . "When we get married!" "When we have kids!". If you do...There will probably be not Wedding discussion ever again. 

8. Don't make out~!  I may sound like your own mother or the priest at church. But What a hell, they were right after all. I am not talking about going to heaven or not. But going deeper than the second base isn't a brilliant idea if you wanna go into a 'serious relationship'. 'Free Samples' at the supermarket are not taken home for real. What comes easy, goes easy! This just applies if you are looking to date for real. But if you are just looking to have FUN! And just 'One Stand night' , Go a head! In this case I just recommend you to use a condom! 

9. Don't laugh at everything or don't talk at all~!  In case you are not dating 'Jim Carrey, Ben Stiller or Adam Sandler' I think you should have no reason to be laughing about 'Everything' he or she says to you. Even though it is actually funny you don't wanna look like an idiot or the 'Barbie tour guide' of Toy Story with a fake smile ALL the time. But at the same time you don't wanna look that serious like a serial killer or making the wrong impression that you don't have any good sense of humor. He or she doesn't want to date a mummy after all. If he or she doesn't find you funny enough or vice versa I think it is not gonna work out. It should be FUN but not FAKE! 

10. Don't start flirting around with other people~! This may sound 'dumb' but don't start looking everyone else in the room. Don't flirt with the waiter or waitress or cashier. I know you are still 'Single' but that doesn't give you the reason to be a Jerk, Bitch or  a Slut in front of your possible 'date'. After all, what kind of impression you wanna make? That you are "Someone to trust ALL or Someone to doubt ALL!" If you start with the wrong feet you will probably end up ' Alone' in the floor with no teeth!  

11. Get rid of the technology~! Control the technology, don't let it Control you and ruin your date! This means pay attention to whatever he or she is saying and listen! Let your hands on the table and not in your phone! Do you wanna date a 'Human Being' or a 'Machine'? You are on a 'Real' date not a 'Virtual' one after all. The world is not gonna fall apart if you stop sending WhatsApps, taking photographs at instagram, reading your Fb Wall, making retweets at the blue bird... 

12. Don't make FUN of anybody but YOU~! Don't make 'Bullying' about others at the table. It is consider rude to talk bad about others , specially when you are on a date. You didn't come this long to start criticizing everyone you know to try to impress her or him like you're the Hit of the Year. Even though you'll get a Grammy or an Oscar or anything else, that doesn't make you any special than Jesus is. 

13. Just be YOURSELF~!  Don't pretend to be 'Someone' that you are NOT. You are looking for your 'Real Good Match' so it's better to know from the start if you guys have the 'Click' flame chemistry or not. If everybody were honest from the start there would be less ' Broken hearts or Heart less ' in the streets. If you just wanna play, tell from the beginning, if you wanna date for real, tell it too. Don't lie about who you are, what you think, what you like or not. To get to know someone, we should open and show ourselves to them too. - If you never try you will never know!  

Well this were just a little piece of advice when you start seeing someone. Don't hurry up making any important decisions before knowing in which unknown land are you landing for!  Maybe she or he is a player and you want to have a'Stable relationship'. Or you are not looking to land into any kind of 'Serious Relationship Yet' and the other person is ready to settle down. Take it slow but for real from the beginning! You don't wanna waste any time after all! ;) 

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