"Friends with Benefits" Does It Really Benefit You?

"Friends with Benefits"  Where are the 'Benefits' at ALL? 

Is Like Playing "Hide" and "Seek". When There is "True Love" You Just Can't Hide it But When There is not, There is "Nothing" left to hide. So if We hide "Something" for Sure is "Not Love". 

- They call you "My Love" when no one else is looking and they call you "My Friend" when anyone asks about your existence role in their Life.   

-They kiss you when no one is around and they make their distance clear from you in public when their true friends and family are watching. 

- They will never tell you about the "Other girls" but they will get lost or missing for days and you know that they weren't in the "Hospital or Jail". If you are lucky that they didn't cancel you or saw you later after "getting laid", I meant "going out" with them. If they don't want to lie, they will just Skip the "Dirty Details" and Say they went out to make a girl "friend" a "Favor", but you can imagine "What kind of favor it was". If they talked about them they will called them as "My Friends". But the thing is... Do you Still Remember that...  Aren't you "Friends" too? 

- They text you saying that they "miss you" but the truth is that they are just "bored" at 3 a.m. when they get back from work and they don't reply you back when they get bored of you now and would say that they were "busy" working or had other things to do. This of course means "Anything Seems More Important than talking back to you". 

- "They will never commit to you as MUCH as you do". Asking for "Fidelity" or "Loyalty" is asking too much. In this Case Is like a Joke when you don't know whether you should Laugh or Cry.They will always look for the way to evade the situation or just change the subject. Let make this clear, Their Only Commitment to you "Starts and ends in the bed". The best thing or gift that they could ever give you is a really "Wild sex night" as diner because you will never see their face again for morning breakfast. 

- They will lie to you by making plans about the future that are just "delusions" about "Marriage" and "Kids" and "Taking the things Soon to the Next Level" because they feel ready to "Settle Down". But the truth is that seems like "Soon" is Never Coming and the Seasons are passing by and you're stuck in the Same Place you were Before with that "Wishful Thinking" Going to "Anywhere". 

- They will tell you that they had a dream with you last night and you will confess that you did too. You of course, will take it as a declaration of "True Love." He will meant that he had a "Wet dream" where you were "both naked in the bed". 

- They take you for granted. They will never See the "Real" you interesting enough to have a "formal relationship" because that takes "Time" and "Effort" and they want the Things "Easygoing" as a "Real" Hippie Smoking Weed did. In other words, "They Always want to get advantage of the Situation "Having Just the Benefits of a relationship without taking any of the responsibilities"  

- They will eventually tell you "Pretty Words" when they haven't heard from you for a while just to remember you that you are one of his personals "Cheerleaders" because he feels like he is the "Final Champion of the FIFA World Cup". And you of course will have crowned him as the "Prom King" but Where's your Crown? He hasn't invited you to the Prom, isn't he?

- They will try to justified themselves from not getting really involved into a "Serious Relationship" Saying that "They are Still too young" But the truth is that... "They Will Never Be Mature Enough Like Peter Pan did Because They Will Never Grow Up Even When Their Body Does..."  

After all The age is just a number but Maturity is a State of Mind... 

So NOW You Understand Why I have asked you, Where are the Real Benefits of this "Not Relationship" ?  I just don't get it. If you just wanna "Get Laid" and not have to Pay you Could Only have "One Night Stand" But you don't have to get involved in this kind of "Pretending" to be "Something" you are just not. Because who played with "Fire" at the end eventually gets burned. 

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