You may think I am crazy or I have lost my mind but honestly I just have lost 'Inaccurate Relationships' to finally find out that...There's 'Nothing' WRONG about that Famous Last Word that starts with -S and ends with 'ingle'. Repeat after me, don't be afraid but proud of it. 'Single'. As scary as it may sounds, Believe me or not. There's nothing wrong with being 'Single'. Actually you got the time to 'Love' or 'Hate' it. The question isn't 'What would you choose for?' But "WHY have you chose it?"
If you chose the 'L' word. No, is not 'Lesbian' but 'L-O-V-E'.
Thinking 'Positively' and not in a 'Grumpy' mood! I have prepare for you 10 Reasons to actually Love it while you still are or gonna be Soon or Just to remember what it felt like when you were! Let's go back time to those old golden days... :)
Anyway Don't get me WRONG! I am not saying that being in a relationship is a bad thing. It could be the 'Best thing ever' that happens to your life. If it is 'Stable' 'Healthy' 'Honest' and 'Real'. What I am saying is that the Mistake comes when you are stuck in a relationship that is just the opposite of these good values. So if you are 'Happy' for the right reasons, 'Congrats', enjoy it and keep going! And if you are not, I think you are just on time to make a change for good! After all there's some truth in the famous phrase: "Better alone than with bad company." If you are 'Still Single' there you go with some of the benefits of it:
1. You don't have to give explanations 'NEVER AGAIN' about 'ANYTHING' you have done to 'ANYONE' than 'YOURSELF'! : "Where are you?", "What are you doing?", "I heard a voice, Who is with you?", "I've being calling you for so long but you didn't pick up. Where were you Last night?"
Does these questions reminds you 'Something' or 'Someone.' ?
So you can do 'Whatever' you want 'Whenever' you want!
But of course this rule implies an exception if you still depend on your parents. Well in that case, You don't have to give 'More explanations' to 'More people' ! That's 'COOL'
2. You don't have to decide between going out with your 'Friends' or your 'Soul mate'. Canceling a 'Guy's night' to watch soccer games and get drunk drinking beer late or playing x-box until you get blind or a headache in the morning.
Or a 'girl's night' to go shopping to a mall or clubbing or staying at your Best friend house to cry over watching romantic comedies? 'I don't think so!' 'Never again'
You don't have to tell first to 'Someone' to get a permission ticket of 'being free to go' ! You just have to GO!
3. NO DRAMAS. NO FIGHTS. You don't get any 'obligation' to 'Send or Reply' immediately messages or inbox or what'sApps. Is the Sky falling a part? Who care's? Maybe you are bored. Maybe you are busy. Maybe you fell asleep. Maybe you are watching a movie. Maybe you were just not in the mood of talking. Who is gonna get mad with you about it? 'NO-ONE'. A friend forgives, but a couple never forgets...
4. NO MORE LIES. You don't have to pretend that 'Everything is All right or All wrong'. The world is just what it is. Your life is your life. Your lips are free to talk. Let the truth set us 'FREE'.
- " Do I look fat in this dress?' , 'Do you still find your 'Ex' attractive?' , 'Have you ever cheated on me?' 'Do you really love me?' 'Did you see the butt of that woman with that mini skirt that pass besides us?, 'Are you looking to my eyes or my tits?', 'Did you forget that today is our anniversary?"
- I told you no more lying, hiding the truth or telling half of the truth.
5. NO MORE LIFE STYLE CHANGES.
- "I used to be atheist and I think I still am but... She wants to get married at the church and she gave me an 'ultimatum'. So we start coming every Sunday to mass. I don't know if there's a God but I do know that I don't believe in ' anything' that comes from the priests. What makes them different from us? Their obsolete clothes or that they are better liars?"
- "Oh! We met at the library! At the beginning I thought he was a 'bookworm'. Then I found out that he was actually the most "Cute' and 'Smart' guy at the class. I don't really like the theater but my boyfriend does. So I started reading Shakespeare but I don't really get it. So we come every Friday to see the plays cause he loves it and I just pretend I understand it..."
- "Me? Romantic? You have no idea! I play football but now I'm just feeling like I'm losing my balls... Don't you dare to tell her, dude but... I'm getting tired of watching these 'Stupid female movies' about 'True stupid Love'. Romance? No one ever does what happens on those 'Chick flicks'. Well maybe, Just a virgin guy very desperate to get laid... I don't know man but I can't understand how girls still watch and believe that shit. I know 'porn' is a shit too but at least it is a real shit that actually happens and Everyone does it."
Be who you really are. You don't have to pretend you are 'Something' that you are not. If someone wants to change you, change that someone for someone else.
6. NO JEALOUSY. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE JEALOUS OR SUPPORT SOMEONE WHO IS.
-'Who is that guy that wrote on your Fb wall an icon of a happy face?" :) -Why are you still online if you told me you were going to sleep? - Why it takes you so long to reply? Are you texting to someone else besides me? - Whose your 'new' friend 'now'?
7. No emotional attachments yet. That means... "You can flirt whenever you want with whoever you want." Update your non-marital status. Go to 'Blind, Deaf and Dumb dates' and make sure to have F-U-N! The important thing is to 'Get to know people and let people know you!' If you don't get a real date you could get a real friendship or a 'Funny Story to Tell' to your friends and grandchildren! But do it in a proper way, remember there's a KARMA waiting for you out there and we live in a 'Small World' with BIG accidents.
8. MORE TIME for you! A 'love relationship' is like a 'business relationship'. Unbelievable. It's a investment of 'Time' , 'Health' and 'Effort.' It takes time to start it, time to go on, time to develop and time to finish! However is not the 'quantity' of time who defines the relationship but the 'quality'.
I have being in a long term relationship before and at the end of it is when you realized that is not the 'period of time' who makes it better or worse but the period of ' True Happy moments' and 'True Happy feelings' which defines it. Of course there's gonna some trouble like in any other relationship, but the main key to make it work is that you guys could figure it out and find 'Solutions' and make 'Agreements' together as a 'couple'.
So now depends on you what you do with your time, cause you are not sharing your life with anyone anymore. So do a good investment. And do 'Something' with your life that makes you 'Truly Happy'.
9. SAVING MONEY? Yeah, I know it may sound 'Selfish and not polite' but all you earn and spend is just for 'you' and your needs and no one else. No more obligatory Birthday, Christmas, Valentine's or Anniversary gifts, expensive restaurant diners, daily movie tickets and combos, flowers, jewelry or any kind of detail for any kind of 'Special women'.
Well with exceptions like if you still have kids or are you helping your parents.
10. NO MORE EMOTIONAL CHANGES. You have got the control of your own emotions. You decide how to feel now. You don't have to be 'Angry' or 'Sad' all day waiting for 'Someone to Call you Back' or to 'Apologize'. No one has the power to make you feel the 'Luckiest' or 'Best' Person in the Whole world or the opposite. There are no words to make you 'Smile' or 'Cry' All day like 'Crazy'. You are still 'Crazy' but not 'Crazy for anyone'. Is just you and your natural madness. You don't have to be acting like an 'Idiot' and doing 'Stupid Crazy Things for Love.'
- "Like listening to the same song for a hundred times thinking about that 'Special Someone' , Or founding yourself 'Laughing' with No Reason while you are walking at the street remembering some random episode about him or her and feel that everybody is looking at you like you were a 'psycho' pat that just get out from a 'mental hospital'. Or writing love poetry or making drawings like you were really a writer or an artist. Or sending her a 'Serenade' like you were your dad that just met your mom."
11. "Remember the Secret Rule Never Tell but Always Known: Just leave the Single benefits you have just read for Someone Who Really Deserves it and will Leave it too Without Thinking it Twice For you!" ;)
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