Mistakes are experiences and they aren't bad at all!

There's nothing wrong with making mistakes! As weird as it sounds! We are all together in that!

Nobody's Perfect! Everybody make mistakes! We should have no regrets of living! Mistakes are the greatest lesson for our existence!

They help you to grow! The thing is... "The man does the mistake but the mistake doesn't do the man!" You're the only one who decides what to do after making a mistake! Think about it! You can regret forever or let it put you down and don't try again or learn from it, move on, be stronger but cautious for the next time you take a decision, you take the right road! 

Making a mistake doesn't turn you into a loser. The only way to win is to never stop trying even though you fail and fall a thousand times before. 

I know it's hard to stop thinking negatively about making mistakes and we feel stupid every time we get something wrong but... If we see mistakes as clues to find out the truth, we can't keep living lies but reaching dreams that can come true. 

- I think the BIGGEST mistake we can make is to stop making mistakes until we get it right!  

So get up from bed, put your clothes on, go outside and live again! And don't feel afraid or stupid to do W-h-a-t-e-v-e-r you truly want to do. If you never reach it is because S-o-m-e-t-h-i-n-g BETTER is coming for you around the corner!   

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The way it used to be! The only way is NOW!

Turn back time to the "Way it used to be"? Stop the clocks? A time machine?

I don't think so! The things are always changing and changes are a good damn thing! Thanks God for it!

Everything and nothing is ALL THE SAME! Our life is a product of all the consequences of our actions and our actions are results of our decisions!

So next time you wanna go back in time, ask yourself? Do I really want to let go all the good things I have now? or all the wisdom I've learned from all my mistakes?    

Life is a constant movement and we're all travelers in time, the main point is that we can't go back, we only can move forward. So don't look back! Don't waste your time and if you turn, take a deep breathe and keep moving!

You are going nowhere if you get stuck in memories that are already gone and happened time ago, as a matter of fact the truth is... YOU CAN'T CHANGE YOUR PAST but YOUR FUTURE!  

Do you wanna build a better future? Enjoy and think N-O-W! Live your present the B-E-S-T you can! It's a crazy world! Let's be crazy but wise! So next time you wish to have a time machine. Just wake up and cross the door.  

You don't need a time machine. Today was Tomorrow and will be Yesterday soon. So if you wanna change or do something, change and do it N-O-W!

Don't waste the time you still have got in regrets but in actions! THE SECRET OF LIFE IS TO KEEP THINKING POSITIVE, ALWAYS MOVING FORWARD AND HEART SMILING! :D

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Always Be ready!

Are you already awake or are you still asleep?

C'mon! Wake up! It's morning already! The sun is rising and you're still sleeping! Life is not a bed of roses, honey! WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE!

I know there are a thousand reasons you'd prefer to stay in bed, keep dreaming about all that perfect world is all in your head but I'm sure there are pretty reasons to be alive in real.

For example: What if the charming prince you're always dreaming about is already there? Neighbors, Clients, Coworkers, Classmates, Friends of friends... If you never try, you will never know! 

I'm sure that there are other good reasons out there if you're not single, like waking up in time to work sometimes give us opportunities as having a more decent breakfast or not getting stuck in the chaotic traffic! 

The punctuality sounds boring but it could make our life more pleasant if we make it a daily habit! G-O-O-D habits are like diamonds in the sky like Rihanna would sing! 

What I am really saying is that the clock never stops and we have just one shot of life to be better and do and live the life we want! So before you notice it you will be in your twenties going to your thirties and successively you will be to O-L-D to R-O-C-K! So ENJOY T-O-D-A-Y! and Forget about yesterday nightmares and leave the pillow in the bed! Even though it's sunny or cloudy or rainy day... It's a PERFECT DAY to START AGAIN with the RIGHT FOOT! 

It's not the circumstances in time that change your life, it's your attitude toward them who is in charge for good or bad, So make it count!

TIC-TAC! HERE COMES THE SUN. THERE'S A NEW DAY OUTSIDE WAITING FOR YOU TO LIVE! 

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To forgive and be forgiven!

"Have you ever felt like you just can't forget the pain when somebody or something hurt you?"

Sometimes the only way to start over is to end up things clear! To truly forgive and be forgiven by heart! There's nothing more painful than keeping hurt feelings about any kind of situation! 

If you don't want to be 'unhappy' for the rest of your life you should confront yourself and admit that to begin again you have to bury your old hurt feelings and negative thoughts to reborn into a new bright attitude. 

- "Here comes the sun again, rising in the blue bright sky after the darkness have just left."

There's nothing more stupid than to blame people or destiny for your own mistakes. There's nothing like bad luck, only bad decisions taken instead. 

Like it says: "LIFE gives you options but you take the decisions!"

So before you start throwing stones toward others, look yourself in the mirror and ask you if you have ever been before in the other guilty person place? Remember the time you had hurt someone so much without purpose and feel how you turned into a mean monster nothing close to the kind of Disney Monster inc cute ones...

- Do you still remember how much it cost you to ask for forgiveness? or How the other person reacted when you asked for it? Did she or he understood you or they took their time? Or maybe they never did? If they didn't how you actually feel about it? Other wise if they did, Do you still remember the relief you felt?

Sometimes we make mistakes again twice or more times than it is necessary to understand what we should do but sometimes we just don't get that second chance to be forgiven and wish we had done things differently, said things in another way or worst regret about things we didn't even do.

So THINK OVER IT! We all have been the bad guy and wish to turn into the hero of the story! Don't be the villain forever or the victim of the Greek tragedy! Just start over again being the best version of the main character in the book of your life, Just be Y-O-U! 

So let all the raindrops run over the green grass and when the storm is over! Be that bright rainbow appearing over the glass window! 

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Keep Smiling!

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There's nothing more BEAUTIFUL than a S-M-I-L-E where there was a tear before! The truth is that nothing and nobody is perfect! 

Sometimes situations get messier like a complicated labyrinth to get out and people get hurt too much they actually get LOST on it but like it says :     

             "The pain is inevitable but the suffering is O-P-T-I-O-N-A-L!"

Eventually feeling sad doesn't mean it has to turn you into a sad person who lives always in depression crying crocodile tears until it is drowning in their own crying! 

It may sound stupid to pretend to be all right when SHIT HAPPENS! But if you CAN'T change the facts, Why you WANT to change it?  

Sometimes the only thing you can change is your ATTITUDE toward the storm!

So smiling as hard as you can until you actually believe it may be unbelievable but turning into a GRINCH not only in Christmas season but for the rest of the year or worst for the rest of your L-I-F-E is completely WORTHLESS! 

Do you want to get revenge? Well there's nothing more smart than giving a truly shining smile to the one who made you cry! C'mon!  Take your time but not your life! Let's cry and finally S-M-I-L-E together! Be brave and show me some teeth!  :D

And Just THINK about it! Have you ever heard the phrase "Hate the mistake but love the lesson?" Well I assure you that when you're ready what makes you cry now will actually make you LAUGH ABOUT IT LATER! 

So If the situation is really difficult don't make it more by not Trying to MOVE ON and LET GO as hard as you can. And don't forget YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL when you KEEP SMILING! :) 

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If you lose your temper you lose your time!

Have you ever been so mad that you actually feel you'd lose your head if this wasn't attach to your body? Guess, what? Me too and the rest of the world too!

- Don't be mad! isn't the right expression... DON'T WANT TO BE MAD!

Do you think that you win more than you lose been mad with somebody or something than LETTING it ALL FLOW? 

Sometimes when I've had a bad day I also want to cut the heads of everybody too! I can't imagine the feeling of an angry judge at the court!  

But you know what? It doesn't matter! The thing is that nothing should be that important to ruin your mood. C'mon! The traffic? An argument with your folks? A bad note at college? A fight with your BFF?  I really mean it. "N-O-T-H-I-N-G" should stop you to be H-A-P-P-Y! NOTHING can actually make your life miserable until you let it happen!

I know you can control other people moods or changes of mind but you have THE POWER in your own hands to decide whether you gonna let this things erase your smile or you gonna be a fighter. But don't take me in the wrong way! Be a fighter cause you want to fight not against them but to your bad mood at them! Because it's ALL true, we are our WORST enemy! Scary doesn't it? 

But the good thing about that is that it also make us our BEST FRIENDS! Think about it! No one in this world know so much about you than yourself! Everyone can notice and learn the common stuff like your favorite movie or song, what color you usually like to buy and which places are you always going to when you hang out with your pals but... Most of the people don't really know you, they just think or pretend they do! But "Hello Surprise" they ALL wrong cause they don't!

So when you feel that you are turning into green HULK color to any bad, frustrating or complicated situation you are in, take a deep breath and RELAX! THINK about what makes you happy, about that beautiful dress you wear last week and  how everyone flattered you! about that trip you gonna take on summer vacations or the next year! about that day you really had fun with your friends you missed the most! about that secretly random little kiss you had with that hot guy and no one knows about! THINK ABOUT YOU!

T-H-I-N-K how beautiful, smart and good looking you are and specially when you are SMILING! Are you gonna let someone or something erase, break or take your smile from you? OF COURSE NOT! ITS A-L-L YOURS! 

So don't let them! ITS YOUR CHOICE! CHOOSE TO BE H-A-P-P-Y! DECIDE IT NOW! 

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Sometimes Losing is a way of Winning!

Sometimes we ALL wanna lose! There are THINGS we all wanna lose in life!

Weird as it sounds I was thinking about it and it all made SENSE!

For example: How many of us doesn't like the idea of losing some weight? or losing the FEAR to do something we really wanna DO? Like taking alone that random trip to Europe or asking somebody new out!

I think if we wanna L-O-S-E it should be S-O-M-E-T-H-I-N-G that STOP us from being really H-A-P-P-Y! 

Like losing all the NEGATIVE thoughts that doesn't let us from MOVING ON! Every voice in our head that tell us to NOT risk and START again!       

           - Do you wanna change your career?    CHANGE IT!

           - Do you wanna GO to school but you're feeling too OLD to study?

                  DO IT! YOU'RE NEVER TOO OLD FOR ANYTHING!

           - Do you wanna quit your job and look for a better one or run your                      own company?     Save some money! Start looking it up! JUST DO IT!

There's nothing more EXHAUSTING that living a life we don't wanna L-I-V-E!

And we constantly forget we have got ONLY ONE SHOT!    

Take that cup up! C-H-E-E-R-S! Celebrate while living! Cause you'll regret it later! I mean if there's a later...

YOU JUST HAVE RI-G-H-T- N-O-W-  and -T-O-D-A-Y! Make your OWN choices!

Don-t let anyone choose for you! It's YOUR LIFE! The only thing you shouldn't never lose is YOURSELF and your FREEDOM to JUST BE YOU!

IF you are gonna lose, CHOOSE to lose ALL the things that are just avoiding you to be where you wanna be.  H-A-P-P-I-N-E-S-S. Don't think it too much! Don't lie about it! Everybody wants to be HAPPY!  LOSE that grumpy or sad attitude and you'll WIN your SMILE back! 

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Friends are a gift!

TODAY was one of those days when I was feeling kind of upset, you know the girl teen thing ... "GIRL D-R-A-M-A"

Even though I wake up and start with the wrong feet, the sun was shining all over the place. Anyway I had breakfast with a smile ear to ear instead of crying tear to tear!

"Do you ever feel like sometimes the days turned to be ALL the same?" Like turning pages of the same comic book. I got bored of everything and anything seem exciting.    

I looked at the clock and the minutes seem to be passing in slow motion! "Do I  really have to pretend like I enjoy standing out from by bed today?"

I chose my clothes to go to school. My school's outfit isn't something that I should care but like it says: YOU never know what you could find out THERE! 

The date in the calendar seem to be ordinary like any other day of this LONG last week to finally go to vacations! I just love the sound of that magic word that turned faces when you just say it aloud.   "V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N-S."   

Before that and finding out that today was the birthday of a hot boy at school it looks like nothing else seem to be out of the ordinary. 

Returning to what matters is that I'm still counting the days to have F-U-N when I'll see my friends. That's the point of this writing. I went to school and while I was in class. Something happened. That something that usually A-L-W-A-Y-S happens to me and lights my dark school days.

A girl friend reply! and we started talking about all that girl's secret stuff! Later another friend replied too and I kept in touch with my lovely friends that even though aren't living here in the same city we're ALL staying in the same heart and sharing the same sky from the distance. 

I just love my FRIENDS like I love VACATIONS! I just think that a life without friends would be like a day sky without clouds or a night sky without stars. They're always there in the good and bad times, sometimes we forget about their existence but then when you feel really sad and lonely you just have to look up and you'll find them being there for you giving you those bright smiles even though you're miles apart you could feel their warm hugs and sweet kisses saying that E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G is gonna be AL RIGHT!

So I thank GOD for all the good things that he had gave me like GOOD FRIENDS to ALWAYS count with!    

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"Feliz San Valentin" 14 de febrero de 2013 a la(s) 0:26

Esto lo escribi hace algun tiempo, lo encontre, espero les guste y se los comparto.

Feliz "San Valentin" para todos! Feliz "Dia Comercial" para algunos! 

"Hoy" es el pretexto mas tonto y la excusa perfecta para reafirmar lo que sentimos por nuestros seres queridos! Aunque realmente eso es algo que deberiamos hacer a diario, los otros 364 dias restantes!

Todos tenemos marcas en el corazon que cargamos con nosotros mismos. Estas marcas son llamadas: "experiencias." Algunas las consideramos "buenas" que nos iluminan el rostro con tan solo pensarlas y otras no tanto.

Existen "personas especiales" en tu vida que aparecen por "arte de magia" en ella, como si se tratase de un acto. "Casualidad o destino? "Yo prefiero llamarlo... "Casualmente destinado a ocurrir!" Aparecen y desaparecen. Entran y salen. "Como un conejo dentro de un sombrero de un mago. Como un genio en la botella." Ya sea como amigos, familiares o parejas. Sin mencionar al temible "Voldemort." Si ese individuo que al tan solo mencionar su nombre se te estremece todo el cuerpo. Del que hablas en secreto a voces con todos tus amigos. Asi que todos saben de su existencia pero nadie conoce tanto su presencia como tu mismo!

Y quisieras que al mencionar 3 veces su nombre se te apareciera como "Beetlejuice." 

Si la unica persona con la que pasar el resto de este dia, escuchando canciones "melosas", viendo comedias "romanticas" mientras dibujas "sonrisas felices" y creas "momentos inolvidables." Al unico "fulanito" en este mundo que al regalar ridiculos presentes como chocolates, tarjetas musicales y globos, no seria nada ridiculo sino agradable. Que al ver la calle repleta de corazones en el aire te den ganas de escribir sus iniciales en el cielo mientras fuegos artificiales brotan por las nubes. Esa persona en la que estas pensando a leer esto en este mismo instante. 

A la que tu mente dice: "Deberias contar cuenta regresiva, salir corriendo y no volver a verlo! Porque afrontar tus sentimientos, da miedo y es racionalmente peligroso!"                                           Pero tu corazon te dice: "Tambien tengo miedo pero creo que deberias decirselo!                                            "Y entonces solo tienes dos opciones: "Vas y se lo dices o te quedas pensando en silencio que pasaria si lo haces..." 

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Live being awake or Die being a dreamer?

Have you ever felt like you're living a dream or are still stuck in a nightmare?

Sometimes at the middle of the night when I'm falling sleep but I'm still awake I wonder about almost E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G that really matters in LIFE.

Most of the time I can't sleep early even though I constantly try a few times. 

I think it is because I've too many things in mind. The luggage of the past that I carry with me every morning I wake up, the moments of the present when I look myself in front of the mirror and remember me that I am still ALIVE and the time when the bubbles of doubts and hopes of tomorrow cross my mind.

I haven't figure it out all my life yet, I have plans and dreams like anyone else on earth but I still don't know what is going happen. I work hard every day to focus in the things that really matters N-O-W. Letting go the things that are useless to think about. Like old mistakes done, bad decisions taken, broken bones and hearts, all the causes and consequences of failed human relationships in general.

It is in the accurate moment when I found myself hugging my pillow after saying God's prayer that I still feel insecure about my dark sides. Everyone has a monster inside, all the bad stuff people and you don't like about yourself. That little things that always matter. Could I change it? Could I turned to someone better?  

There's a phrase that I love and someday I wanna have it like a tattoo in my back , it says:  "LET your Past make you BETTER, not bitter."

 I wanna live a normal life like everyone else does but sometimes I feel like I just don't fit in any kind of expectations. What the society expects of me, what my family hopes for me, what my friends wonder about me, what my coworkers want about me, what the others say about me. Even though what I think about me. I don't have the right answers for all their expectations of who they want me to be and the only one that makes sense to me: -"WHO I wanna be."

I wanna be someone to be remembered like the person I meant to be but the THING is I haven't met that person yet. I think I'll know her sooner or later. I'm still driving me crazy until I found her. ALL her dreams that I wanna turned to reality to make her really happy, she really deserves it like the rest. 

She wants to travel around going to unknown new places, she wants to learn how to swim and drive a car, she wants to publish a book, she wants to be more social and meet different kind of new people, she wants to finally speak french to someone who gets it, she wants to keep true friendships until the end of her time and finally someday she wants... YOU and you to want her back. She wants to meet you like a random stranger, get to know you like a damn good friend and finally live a lifetime together with all the marriage, kids and the romance and drama trouble stuff. But if she never finds you, I want her to be happy with just who she really is. Because the REAL Happiness comes from inside to share with whoever is outside. 

Happiness means being happy with yourself and enjoying loneliness so you can be the best company to share a cup of coffee, a glass of wine and a piece of TIME.  

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Sometimes you just have to let it go!

Have you ever get stuck in one place?

Sometimes we get lost in our comfort zone! There's a whole WORLD waiting for us  and we are so afraid to LET IT GO and start moving forward that we actually STAY even though we know what to do!

There's still a million new unknown places in our LIFE map to travel around!

But what is really the matter? We are ALWAYS making EXCUSES to just wonder about it! 

The thing is we do think it but we think it TOO MUCH! And we ALL know that... If you think too much SOMETHING you'll never actually do it!

If you look up cowardly to find reasons to be sad, you'll always be madly swimming in tears... But if you bravely stop crying and start looking up now for new reasons to be happily smiling, let me tell you S-O-M-E-T-H-I-N-G... ONE Reason, ONE Smile a day is more than enough to have a new FRESH start!

Don't doubt it, you and everyone else deserves to be happy! Life is too short to be stuck regretting in one place! 

Just IMAGINE you'll be stuck  'FOREVER' listening to the same old good song in the radio. Even though how much you love it and it's your favorite song ever, someday you'll actually be finally sick of it and switch the station channel before you throw up! 

The same example applies to most of any LIFE cases, living in the same place since you were born? TRAVEL Around! MOVE to another place! ; Making the old same mistakes every day and regretting about it later? STOP it! Change your loser attitude to a winner one! ; Have you just had a rough fight with a friend? SCREAM ALOUD in your own room and then call your friend and invite him to go for a cup of coffee or tea and Just TALK POLITE until you resolve it in a fair damn GOOD way for BOTH of you!

OH, LET ME GUESS... What if you have J-U-S-T got heart broken? Do you still remember the time when you felt like you FELL and F-A-I-L-E-D in love? YOUR boyfriend/girlfriend just dumped you or cheated on you? Or your forever platonic crush just rejected you or started dating someone else before he or she even notice your existence?

DON'T BLAME ANYONE! Well we're all HUMANS beings, we're not perfect aliens and we ALL make mistakes! Specially when it implies emotions and feelings about. IT'S understandable that you need some TIME to YOURSELF, SO What are you waiting for? HURRY UP! TAKE IT!

- If you wanna stay in your room for a few time, hugging your pillow WHILE you are watching romantic comedies, eating forbidden ice-cream,  crying like a teen  bitch and asking yourself a million questions of what JUST have happened... DO IT! BUT MAKE IT A FEW DAYS! 

YOU are probably wondering something like "How the person that entered to your life like a complete STRANGER turned to be the MOST important person in your daily mind now just returned to be that stranger that seems you have NEVER met and REALLY never get to know?"

Well sometimes it seems like there's NO Answer... Like it enters, it GOES! BUT the thing is... Even if you've just really get dumped or even worst, if he or she WASN'T even your boyfriend/girlfriend or soul mate, it DOESN'T MATTER! It doesn't change the fact that you've just got a heartache to deal with! Don't get me WRONG it's RIGHT to feel this way! Because even if you got hurt NOW you'll thank it LATER! MAYBE this Mr or Mrs. Wonderful wasn't the right match for you or reversal! And this heart lesson will teach you how to be STRONG and WISE enough for the NEXT time think it twice before you open your heart to some random stranger before really getting to know him or her in the FIRST place! I know, I know we NEVER get to really know somebody but at least you could get a closer idea of WHO really is before letting  her or him take the throne and making it your queen or king of your heart! <3  The THING is "Don't get forever GRUMPY or DEPRESSED, SOONER or LATER Y-O-U have to L-E-T  I-T  G-O!" 

Like if you were tired of always be driving to work the same old useless car! Stop regretting! You will really never get SOMEWHERE like that! Save some money and replace it for a new one! 

Like I said before: - "NEW is A-L-W-A-Y-S B-E-T-T-E-R!" How you gonna meet the RIGHT one if you don't let go the WRONG one? 

You have to learn to accept the things and facts you can't change. Sometimes you can't just control the weather but your attitude! If it's raining and you wanna go out, DO IT but take an umbrella with you!  What I mean is if you feel upset, CRY ALL what you want to cry but when you're finally done, Take a DEEP BREATH, SMILE like you MEAN IT So you actually BELIEVE IT and MOVE ON! After a storm there's always a rainbow and after a rainbow there's always a pot of gold! 

SO This the FIRST Call to S-T-A-R-T M-O-V-I-N-G F-O-R-W-A-R-D and L-E-T-T-I-N-G G-O!  REMEMBER :   "The B-I-G Stories ALWAYS Begin with Little Steps! Y-O-U CAN DO IT!   START T-O-D-A-Y<3!"     :) 

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Fragmentos de Recuerdos

- TODO y NADA es casi lo mismo. Alguna vez has sentido que te ha pasado "casi" de todo y otras simplemente no sentiste "casi" nada?

Y es el que "casi" es la linea invisible divisoria entre el corazon, la razon y los ojos. 

Y es por eso que aunque tu no viste casi "nada", a mi contigo me paso casi de "todo". Porque tendrias que haber cerrado los ojos y observado con la vista de quien ama. "Con el alma."

- "Viendo las luces de la gran ciudad que se esconden en la obscuridad de la noche. Una noche repleta de silencios propios y ruidos ajenos. Contemplando automoviles y personas pasar con o sin rumbo fijo. Sintiendome invisible desde un balcon desconocido, formando parte al mismo tiempo de la vista de algun espectador vecino. Puedo finalmente encontrarme con mi peor y mejor amigo. Conmigo mismo." 

- Cuando pienses en quedarte con alguien, piensa si en realidad es la persona con la que quieres estar. Que si aunque conocieras a alguien MAS, esto significa MAS atractivo, mas inteligente, mas gracioso, mas fuerte, mas alto, mas delgado, mas musculoso y en algun aspecto mejor, aun asi seguirias estando a lado de esta sin importar que lleve la desventaja en la comparacion. Que esa persona no sea tu unica opcion del momento sino tu unica opcion para toda la vida. Asegurate de que no sea tu "mientras tanto" sino tu "Para S-I-E-M-P-R-E." Y cuando realmente estes seguro de lo que sientas, tomala de la mano y no la dejes ir NUNCA de tu lado.

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New is Always Better!

"Have you ever been told that new is always better than old?"

I have always wondered about that. Maybe the answer depends in the right moment you're asking. 

I will explain this by saying that of course I love my old friends, I miss my old life, I am an eternal fan of old movies, I used to read good old books, I remember old lovers, I still listen to that great old songs that changed my life,  I enjoy to tell old fun stories about my childhood or adolescence and

as a matter of fact sooner or later like in fashion cases, old stuff mode returns and turn into the actual new style again.

There's always something really damn good in OLD because previously it used to be NEW. So like the moon and the sun this day night status will be forever in our hearts and minds. 

Yesterday- Old news, TODAY- The middle of above and Tomorrow- New fresh stuff. The thing is that sometimes we forget what we are living NOW because we're so busy still living in the past. The past is something that we can't change and we should always move on, but WHEN? 

We spend too much time thinking about what happened before that we actually let go new opportunities. I am not saying that we should all get amnesia and live like we don't remember anything we've lived before because that will be like lying to ourselves and LIVING a LIE is such an awful way to DIE! And a total WASTE of our valuable TIME! 

The beauty of making new choices and making new experiences and memories for tomorrow is that like an OLD foreign friend told me before when I asked him if he liked more his actual school than his old school in his natal country. 

I still remember that he just turned back to me and after giving me that genius Einstein bright look and a pretty innocent smile like when you are talking to a child, then he answered me that he actually was really enjoying then his time learning English. 

I was so confused by his answer because I knew how much he missed  his old friends, old life, old familiar memories and old spend times. So I wondered why and asked him again to make sure I understand clearly his point.  

- BUT WHY?

  

Then he just looked back to me and laugh and said this wise short phrase that I'll keep with me forever and always:

"Because NEW is ALWAYS better!"

For a few time, I just didn't get it. The real meaning behind that phrase. But TODAY I think I finally get it. What he was referring was that even of the scary mystery that NEW could bring or sound like because you don't really know what is going to happen... Unless you've got magic powers and could know the future, that I am pretty sure most of us don't. You have to take the risks that brings daily life or you'll miss ALL the FUN!

Of course at the beginning you've like a million doubts against your will. What if? And ALL the WORST luck of the world accidents and mistakes that may or not happen are the first thoughts that cross your mind.

Just THINK about it! What if that famous phrase : "BREAK A LEG" come true! You finally say yes and go to that random trip with your friends or coworkers and you actually do break a leg? WHAT? In the middle of the jungle? or if you go to your first real job interview and they reject you in your face! or if you go to a blind date and the hot guy turned to be a junk guy or if he thinks you're just not too smart or funny enough to hang out with? 

-WHAT IF E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G goes WRONG? But WHAT IF EVERYTHING goes R-I-G-H-T? 

The important decision here is... if you never do or go, if you never try... YOU WILL NEVER KNOW what could have happened or will happen! 

You will NEVER live. You will be just locked out in your home alone but life honey, life is OUTSIDE the door, OUT of your comfort zone and is like a bus that just arrived to be taken! But possibilities never stop to wait for you, if you don't run, never wonder why it didn't stop to wait for you... Even dough don't worry there's a bus passing by every 15 minutes but is never the same bus or the same people that were in the previous one.

I know is hard to think that everything changes, that you can't stop the clocks! That's why if you aren't getting younger you better hurry up to start living so when you get older you have LIVED ENOUGH to DIE with JOY and GLORY! 

Anyway! TRY again! LIVE again! LAUGH again! DANCE again! LOVE again! TRAVEL again! DO WHATEVER you want that's healthy and legal! Doesn't matter what others think about you! GOD and yourself are the only two judges that do matter to worry about! 

Is never too late until you're still breathing oxygen!    LIVE TODAY, DO NOW AND ENJOY IT FOREVER!

You don't have too much time to waste, regret later maybe after death but who cares? We have ONLY ONE life. One shot to be Happy! Decide to be happy NOW! Because you don't know if tomorrow you'll be dead! 

My best advice is: "LIVE T-O-D-A-Y like there's No Tomorrow!

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