10 Things to Love About Being 'Single' :)

You may think I am crazy or I have lost my mind but honestly I just have lost 'Inaccurate Relationships' to finally find out that...There's 'Nothing' WRONG about that Famous Last Word that starts with -S and ends with 'ingle'. Repeat after me, don't be afraid but proud of it. 'Single'. As scary as it may sounds, Believe me or not. There's nothing wrong with being 'Single'. Actually you got the time to 'Love' or 'Hate' it. The question isn't 'What would you choose for?'  But "WHY have you chose it?"

If you chose the 'L' word. No, is not 'Lesbian' but 'L-O-V-E'. 

Thinking 'Positively' and not in a 'Grumpy' mood! I have prepare for you 10 Reasons to actually Love it while you still are or gonna be Soon or Just to remember what it felt like when you were! Let's go back time to those old golden days... :) 

Anyway Don't get me WRONG! I am not saying that being in a relationship is a bad thing. It could be the 'Best thing ever' that happens to your life. If it is 'Stable' 'Healthy' 'Honest' and 'Real'.  What I am saying is that the Mistake comes when you are stuck in a relationship that is just the opposite of these good values. So if you are 'Happy' for the right reasons, 'Congrats',  enjoy it and keep going!  And if you are not, I think you are just on time to make a change for good! After all there's some truth in the famous phrase: "Better alone than with bad company."  If you are 'Still Single' there you go with some of the benefits of it: 

1. You don't have to give explanations 'NEVER AGAIN' about 'ANYTHING' you have done to 'ANYONE' than 'YOURSELF'!   : "Where are you?", "What are you doing?", "I heard a voice, Who is with you?", "I've being calling you for so long but you didn't pick up. Where were you Last night?" 

Does these questions reminds you 'Something' or 'Someone.' ?

So you can do 'Whatever' you want 'Whenever' you want! 

But of course this rule implies an exception if you still depend on your parents. Well in that case, You don't have to give 'More explanations' to 'More people' !   That's 'COOL'

2. You don't have to decide between going out with your 'Friends' or your 'Soul mate'. Canceling a 'Guy's night' to watch soccer games and get drunk drinking beer late or playing x-box until you get blind or a headache in the morning. 

Or a 'girl's night' to go shopping to a mall or clubbing or staying at your Best friend house to cry over watching romantic comedies? 'I don't think so!' 'Never again' 

You don't have to tell first to 'Someone' to get a permission ticket of 'being free to go' ! You just have to GO! 

3. NO DRAMAS. NO FIGHTS. You don't get any 'obligation' to 'Send or Reply' immediately messages or inbox or what'sApps.  Is the Sky falling a part? Who care's? Maybe you are bored. Maybe you are busy. Maybe you fell asleep. Maybe you are watching a movie. Maybe you were just not in the mood of talking. Who is gonna get mad with you about it?   'NO-ONE'. A friend forgives, but a couple never forgets... 

4. NO MORE LIES. You don't have to pretend that 'Everything is All right or All wrong'. The world is just what it is. Your life is your life. Your lips are free to talk. Let the truth set us 'FREE'. 

- " Do I look fat in this dress?' , 'Do you still find your 'Ex' attractive?' , 'Have you ever cheated on me?' 'Do you really love me?' 'Did you see the butt of that woman with that mini skirt that pass besides us?, 'Are you looking to my eyes or my tits?', 'Did you forget that today is our anniversary?"  

- I told you no more lying, hiding the truth or telling half of the truth. 

5. NO MORE LIFE STYLE CHANGES. 

- "I used to be atheist and I think I still am but... She wants to get married at the church and she gave me an 'ultimatum'. So we start coming every Sunday to mass. I don't know if there's a God but I do know that I don't believe in ' anything' that comes from the priests. What makes them different from us? Their obsolete clothes or that they are better liars?"

- "Oh! We met at the library! At the beginning I thought he was a 'bookworm'. Then I found out that he was actually the most "Cute' and 'Smart' guy at the class. I don't really like the theater but my boyfriend does. So I started reading Shakespeare but I don't really get it. So we come every Friday to see  the plays cause he loves it and I just pretend I understand it..." 

- "Me? Romantic? You have no idea! I play football but now I'm just feeling like I'm losing my balls... Don't you dare to tell her, dude but... I'm getting tired of watching these 'Stupid female movies' about 'True stupid Love'. Romance? No one ever does what happens on those 'Chick flicks'. Well maybe, Just a virgin guy very desperate to get laid... I don't know man but I can't understand how girls still watch and believe that shit. I know 'porn' is a shit too but at least it is a real shit that actually happens and Everyone does it."

Be who you really are. You don't have to pretend you are 'Something' that you are not. If someone wants to change you, change that someone for someone else. 

6. NO JEALOUSY. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE JEALOUS OR SUPPORT SOMEONE WHO IS. 

-'Who is that guy that wrote on your Fb wall an icon of a happy face?" :) -Why are you still online if you told me you were going to sleep? - Why it takes you so long to reply? Are you texting to someone else besides me? - Whose your 'new' friend 'now'? 

7. No emotional attachments yet. That means... "You can flirt whenever you want with whoever you want."  Update your non-marital status. Go to 'Blind, Deaf and Dumb dates' and make sure to have F-U-N! The important thing is  to 'Get to know people and let people know you!' If you don't get a real date you could get a real friendship or a 'Funny Story to Tell' to your friends and grandchildren! But do it in a proper way, remember there's a KARMA waiting for you out there and we live in a 'Small World' with BIG accidents.

8. MORE TIME for you!  A 'love relationship' is like a 'business relationship'. Unbelievable. It's a investment of 'Time' , 'Health' and 'Effort.' It takes time to start it, time to go on, time to develop and time to finish! However is not the 'quantity' of time who defines the relationship but the 'quality'.  

I have being in a long term relationship before and at the end of it is when you realized that is not the 'period of time' who makes it better or worse but the period of ' True Happy moments' and 'True Happy feelings'  which defines it. Of course there's gonna some trouble like in any other relationship, but the main key to make it work is that you guys could figure it out and find 'Solutions' and make 'Agreements' together as a 'couple'. 

So now depends on you what you do with your time, cause you are not sharing your life with anyone anymore. So do a good investment. And do 'Something' with your life that makes you 'Truly Happy'. 

9. SAVING MONEY? Yeah, I know it may sound 'Selfish and not polite' but all you earn and spend is just for 'you' and your needs and no one else. No more obligatory Birthday, Christmas, Valentine's or Anniversary gifts, expensive restaurant diners, daily movie tickets and combos, flowers, jewelry or any kind of detail for any kind of 'Special women'.  

Well with exceptions like if you still have kids or are you helping your parents.

10. NO MORE EMOTIONAL CHANGES.  You have got the control of your own emotions. You decide how to feel now. You don't have to be 'Angry' or 'Sad' all day waiting for 'Someone to Call you Back' or to 'Apologize'. No one has the power to make you feel the 'Luckiest' or 'Best' Person in the Whole world or the opposite. There are no words to make you 'Smile' or 'Cry' All day like 'Crazy'. You are still 'Crazy' but not 'Crazy for anyone'. Is just you and your natural madness. You don't have to be acting like an 'Idiot' and doing 'Stupid Crazy Things for Love.'   

- "Like listening to the same song for a hundred times thinking about that 'Special Someone' , Or founding yourself 'Laughing' with No Reason while you are walking at the street remembering some random episode about him or her and feel that everybody is looking at you like you were a 'psycho' pat that just get out from a 'mental hospital'.  Or writing love poetry or making drawings like you were really a writer or an artist. Or sending her a 'Serenade' like you were your dad that just met your mom." 

11. "Remember the Secret Rule Never Tell but Always Known: Just leave the Single benefits you have just read for Someone Who Really Deserves it and will Leave it too Without Thinking it Twice For you!"  ;)

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'Stupid Love Stupid Drugs'

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Have you ever been in love? Have you ever been 'addicted' to someone else than yourself? 

So if your answer was 'YES' I have been or I still am, I think we could agree in some points about it.  LOVE is definitely a 'Daily habit' that could turned into a 'Dangerous addiction'.  Just like Drugs does... 

First of all, Let's start in 'The beginning.' The first time you saw this person, - What was the first thought that cross your mind?    Did she or he looked 'Hot' or all the 'Opposite' for you? 

I have heard so many cases where the last person on earth you thought was going to turn into your crush turned it to be. Yeah, That happened to me once or more...

Second phase. You just wanna know 'E-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g' about this 'Stranger'. His or her dreams, fears and goals in life. The things she or he 'likes' and the things she or he 'hates' about.  Their philosophy of Living. Their idols. And start making this stupid questions like -Which is your favorite... ?  - Movie, Book, Song, Actor, Author, Color, Sport, Food, Weather, ETC. No matter the answer, you just wanna know 'ALL'. 

Third phase.  You act like a complete 'Idiot' when she or he is around you! You 'laugh' about anything funny or not, even though they were really the worst jokes ever said. You will probably find yourself 'Smiling' with no reason, You are so 'nervous' that your heart could explode in any minute! I'm serious with this, take it easy or you could have a heart attack or a heartache later! 

Fourth phase. Did you instantly start 'Thinking' about that person every minute for 24 hrs a day? Is like you have become her o his mental slave? A complete obsession isn't it? Try erasing her or him from your memory, I bet you is the most difficult thing tried ever. 

Fifth phase. You're talking about her or him with anyone. No 'ex' exceptions. And now appears to be that you can't continue a casual conversation if you don't ever say his or her name at least once. Everyone is getting bored about it and start asking questions like -  Who is her or him? or Can't you talk about anything else? or Don't you have something better to say? 

Sixth phase. You've become an official worker of the FBI or CIA or a psycho 'STALKER'. Could you 'STOP' looking at his 'Fb Wall' ? Do you know now his cellphone by memory for ALL the times you've actually erase it from your phone and add it again? Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, What'supp... All this social networks and technology have become your worst enemies! Scary isn't it?

Seventh phase.  Are you Jealous? A minute ago you were so 'Happy' you could die and now you have discover that your 'limitless imagination' could be a Real 'nightmare'. Now you're trying to 'Put your mind in Blank'. If he or she ever mention a 'Friend' you're instantly 'On Fire' , Don't even mention when you talked about their 'Exes.'

Eight phase. You have 'NO' Control over your emotions. You're a hurricane. You feel like being in this 'Roller Coaster' of 'Ups' and 'Downs'. Have you become crazy insane? 911, Someone call a doctor, Please! 

Ninth phase. You start secretly liking and trying things you never like before. If she or he likes cats for example, now you find yourself thinking they are not as cold as you thought. Now they seem kind of 'adorable'. Listening to a kind of music you'll never hear before in a million years. 

Tenth phase. You start with this strange and random ' Pink' thoughts of 'Gifts' , 'Wedding', 'Kids', 'Home'. All the things that used to scared you or you couldn't cared less start to 'make sense to you'. You start to want to have them ALL if that person is beside you.  

If some or all of these phases were similar to how you feel about 'Someone' Right Now, I am Really Sorry to tell you but you should admit that... 'You're in love'!  :)

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Happy or Conformist?

If your happy face is like the one show up in the picture above I think 'we're in serious trouble'. 

Do you wake up every day without motivation? Do you feel no difference between Tuesday and Wednesday? Have you lost your smile lately? Do you forget at home your 'Good mood' so when you're outside you just wanna go back home directly? 

If you said yes to even 'one' single question, you're at your comfort zone but not in your best mood ever. Where's the 'Happy' zone? Have you lost your way? Did the last happy zone you've ever been was when you were eight playing at the play games section of McDonald's or ordering a 'Happy Meal'?. 

Try distracting your mind! Play it 'Cool' not like a 'Fool'. Stop feeling dumb, because being 'Sad' is a dumb mood in most of the cases. Don't blame that the smart people are always smiling from the inside even though they look so serious. After all being 'Happy' doesn't mean to be pretending by laughing and smiling like an idiot at the street. 

I think that if you are not happy is because you haven't admit it yet that you can't change the past or you keep blaming others for whatever that happened  to you long or a minute ago that made you feel bad. Maybe you are still wondering -WHY?    Why did that happen to you and not to other person in the earth? It's that your bad luck or Karma for something you did in one of your last past lives? Why things couldn't be easier? Why couldn't you born 'richer' or 'prettier'? Why he or she didn't love you back? 

Sometimes we will never known the answer or maybe we do but we just don't wanna admit it. Even though living in regrets, fears or doubts is a waste of time and we have got one life to live 'now'. 

'So don't worry, be HAPPY' like that famous song says. I am sure that if we look it deeply we could find enough 'Little things' to be satisfied. Even when the sky is dark, there is light at night. Search for those stars to shine. 

'Never give up' in your dreams and goals. If you are crazy, strong and brave enough, I am sure that you'll actually reach it. The sky is the limit but first you have to be fine with yourself.    

So think about it!     Decide to be 'Happy'!   'H-A-P-P-I-N-E-S-S'   is a state of mind. 

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Would you bring her Flowers?

She never asked him for anything. Even though she always wanted to.

Sometimes she wonder if he felt the same way she felt about him.

But she was so scared to find out the real answer.

When she talked with him even for one single minute, she'd have been singing love songs and caring a smile for 24 hours.

The days passed by her window and the clock didn't stop. But nothing ever changed between them. Some days he was so cold and she got hurt by his indifference. She noticed he didn't care that much about her even though he said he did.

He never sent her flowers. She never asked for them. He told her 'Beautiful white lies' and 'Pretty innocent illusions' about how could be their future together. 'Marriage' , 'Kids', 'Love', But where was the flowers in it?

There was no flowers, there was no charmed, there was no romance, there was clearly no real interest... There was 'No True Love.'

She could hear and see how their friends showed her their flowers. All look pretty in their meaningful dresses while drinking coffee cups talking about their 'Charming' men and romance. 

She looked at her table. Always empty. Always simple. There were no flowers for her. The Spring turned to Winter. The seasons flied away and she was still there standing like a vase. 

One day, she met a stranger at the street. She wasn't used to talk to them. But he told her an excuse to start a conversation. He looked like a gentleman, something really weird in these days. They instantly from that moment became friends. 

They used to pick up the same bus and talk about their lives and all kind of things. Their friendship save her in some way she didn't realize until the day she stop seeing him. But something on her was changed forever. 

Her table wasn't empty now. There was a vase full of beautiful flowers that will remain in her mind forever. The flowers of a friend that didn't hurt or lie. She couldn't believe that she finally had them.

- The flowers she always wanted where given by someone else. 

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Which would you call 'The Best Days of Your Life?'

I think the 'Best Days of My Life' are those ones where I've had so much FUN I don't want them to end never again. Those beautiful memories with that beautiful people that I called: 'My family or my friends'. 

Those days I feel so lucky to be 'me' and so proud of 'who I am'. When the joy of being next to someone could be reflected all over my face and I just can't stop smiling like a stupid and feeling so damn 'Good' to be just 'There' at 'That' Time to live that 'exact' moment and wouldn't change anything about it at ALL!

Those summer and winter days, Those Friday nights and Saturday afternoons. Those laughs and hugs. Those words and looks. Those jokes and photos. Those hands and kisses. 

Like when your favorite song is playing on the radio. Those 'Perfect' days that sounded so 'Good' to me.

Beautiful stories isn't it? The ones that you wrote yourself. The ones that you write feeling the joy of living. In every single day that we live there's a single piece of us that's leave to be remember forever and later.

We should live like we are immortals but make every day count at the same time! Let go all the bad days and keep in heart the 'Good Times'! 

I am glad for all the days I'd pass with people whom I care and love about. Let's keep that in mind. All the joy, peace, fun and love we feel for others.

Remember only the 'GOOD' Stuff and have no regrets about anything you have done. Let it go. The Best Days of Your Life are 'HERE' and 'NOW' that you are still ALIVE! 

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First time

                             
                           
Do you still remember your first time at all?

Your first day at school? Maybe you were so afraid of meeting new people or let new people to know you. Or too upset to leave your comfort zone and be a part from your own parents. 

Your first friend at a new place?   You have probably change school or city at least once in your entire life and have to start again from zero to your own hero. Anyway You have always to say your last 'Good-bye' so you can say that first 'Hello'. 

Your first crying watching a movie?  When we were kids we were more sensitive and emotional so this first tears watching something is one of our first moments of tears.         - The Lion King. When Mufasa died. 

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Your first kiss?  With or without tongue? Does it really matter how was it? Who was him o her? If it was slow or quick? If it was a magical kiss at a romantic scene like the pink movies? Or if it was kissing a real jerk frog? 

Your first date?  Did you enjoy it? Was it random or cool? Where was it? Movie theater, at a park, at mall... How did you look? How did she or he react when you show up? Did it end so bad you wish you could forget it? Or it was so fun you will remember it and tell it to your friends and kids for a hundred times?

Your first flight?  Hell yeah, the first time you finally took that plane to somewhere far away from home. Were you scared to fly? Were you so nervous you almost forget how to breathe? Or you were to be a natural world traveler or pilot? 

Your first vacations?  Where did you go? How was it? Was it near or far from where you used to live at that time?   Cold or hot weather? Inside or outside your country?    Did you go to the beach or to a museum? To visit family or friends or none of them?

Your first job?   How old you were? What did you do? Did you actually like it? Did they fired you or you quit? Would you do it again?

Your first lesson at something you really want to learn?  There's always something we always wanted to do even though we don't know how. Learning a new language? - Je ne parle francois pas. Learning to drive that car. Learning to play that musical instrument. Learning to swim so you finally don't get drowned at the pool or beach. 

Your first time falling in love?   Did you fell and failed too? Or did you last and succeed? Was it your first love? Was it in your first real relationship or wasn't she or he even your love partner? Did she or he even get to know you or know at least what you felt? 

In our life time we have always had a first time of doing or having something. And you know what? We will always will. Is never too late to do whatever you truly want to do for the first time. Because we never know if it could be our last time of actually doing it.   

So make it 'FIRST' and do it 'NOW' ! 

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Do you really want to date that someone or you just want to have a date?

Are you alone or lonely? There's a BIG difference between those words!

Society says that normal human beings have a date and if you are still single you're weird as a freak alien. You're not longer human. ARE YOU?

This of course is just a sarcastic way to say it. Of course you are still YOU and nothing is wrong with you. You are just not Love sick, that's all or maybe you are but you haven't gone that serious yet. Actually you could be doing better than ever. But strange as it sounds, people may not believe it. 

- But who care's? Who knows you better than yourself? Do their opinions are going to pay your rent or buy you new clothes? I don't think so!

Probably ALL your friends or known people around you are dating, in a relationship, getting married or having babies. I see it all the time. And guess what? You are not the only one in this supposed to be 'the End of the World Situation.'

That is just a phase of a Life time. Like when every girl in Jr. high school was having their first kiss or period. And for guys it's the same like their first time at a second base or entering to mayor leagues, finally having a 'Home Run'. 

I am not saying that being alone is a bad thing, I actually think is the 'best thing ever' when you really spend time to know you better and DO ALL the things you always wanted to do but you never did cause you didn't take the precious time for it! NOW is the time to rock! 

Don't rush yourself to get into a relationship just because people tells you. Don't listen, just enjoy, have a good time and when you feel ready and right to tied up with someone who feels the same way that you do, don't think it twice and go for it! 

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Anger, Are you really mad?

Today I had a fight with her. The woman who gave me birth. I know I have so much to thank to her but I was so damn mad that I couldn't remember that.

I guess sometimes we get so mad we almost lose the head. I turned green as the grass while she turned red as a STOP sign but I just couldn't shut up.

Sometimes I think she just pretend that we are doing okay but we can't stand up each other anymore. She screamed and I fight back. We explode like fireworks at the sky but not as pretty as Disneyland.

I think sometimes we just need to make a pause in our life and think deeply what we really want. Don't get angry or sad. Try to focus in your own smile.

I hope I could eat my words back, I didn't mean to hurt her but she got me mad. Definitely I should apologize. This is just the moment I feel we don't understand each other anymore. Maybe she's too old, maybe I'm too young in comparison. I hope that someday we could understand each other again.

Is almost time to leave her and take my own road. I'm counting the days and stars to fly away. I wanna miss her and not be mad at her anymore. I think the distance could help us to fix the things we broke inside. I still love her and she loves me, as mother and daughter is the way it's supposed to be.

The point is that when you are mad at something or someone, maybe you are not as mad at them like you think you are. Maybe you are just mad at yourself because things didn't work out at your own way. 

Any case it is, you should ALWAYS remember it takes TWO to start a fight and it takes ONE to end it! Don't keep the anger to yourself, let it go, cause if you stayed with that negative feeling inside the only one who is gonna get hurt is anyone but... YOU! :)

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Give Up or Try it Harder?

Sometimes life take us to unexpected roads leading to unknown places and we have to decide if we want to go back or to keep moving forward in this random cities. 

Maybe we just need to take some deep breathe of clear air outside, if we keep us locked burning in hell we will never find enjoying ourselves in heaven.

The real thing is: What happens when you don't wanna go back to the place you  have been before?

We should find out WHAT WE REALLY WANT IN LIFE. Then everything will be so much easier to take. Find what you truly want and just go for it!

Don't let the others decide for you. Don't be scared of making a wrong decision. Make your own steps at your own time and speed. Do not run if you still don't feel sure of running. Don't forget... "Small steps make BIG differences."

Let all your fears and tears pass you by and focus in the TREASURE, in what really matters. Your D-R-E-A-M-S and G-O-A-L-S. 

- Sometimes we have to let go good things so better things can come over! 

There is always a chance to start all over again but sometimes we are in the perfect place at the right time and we have this great opportunity we should never miss... So THINK ABOUT IT! But don't take too long!

Life is just one shot of your own favorite taste. Tequila, Ron, Vodka, Whisky, Brandy... Whatever you want. Just take it! Just do it before is too late to regret yourself! 

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Feelings are good or wrong?

Sometimes I wonder if what we really feel it's GOOD or WRONG!

I guess we will never know!

Feelings could be strong or all time low. It's the way they are meant to be.

We are humans and we feel. That's the truth. Beyond that eyes there were tears before. Before that bright smile there was a sad face too. But don't let the scars from the past ruin your present and destroy your future. 

I had many times wish to be "emotionless" and pretend to not care about anything while I still do about e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g. I still have no answer for a lot of interrogatives I've every single day I wake up.

But I've learned the main key is not lose yourself. If you lose the hope in you, you're lost. Don't let anything or anyone put you down and if you let them, try again and S-T-A-N-D U-P! 

Don't walk away from your fears. They are not your enemies. They are actually your friends. Confront them and you will learn how to be patient and strong. The power is in your mind. Everything is mental. Choose to be powerful and strong not weak. 

You have to admit that there are things you can't change or control in life. It's okay, we can't know everything, we are not Einstein or God. So we've have to let it go. Let go all the worries and things that stop you from living and smiling again. 

- M-O-V-E O-N ! Don't get stuck in the past! Forgive your and theirs mistakes! and Shine bright like a diamond like the song says. 

There's a phrase: "Don't be SCARED to Walk Alone. Don't be Scared to LIKE it!"

That's true. Sometimes is better to be by our own than being with bad company. So take a deep breathe like I've said and walk away from everything that hurts! Get over it! Start again! 

- And if you look back, Don't forget to Keep Moving Forward! 

To feel love pain doesn't make you weak, it makes you human! There's nothing wrong about being sad but there's nothing better as being happy! 

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Create The Life You Really Wanted!

You born, you grow, you study, you get a job, you get married, you get naked and you have kids to do the same thing! That's how it's done? How life is supposed to be lived? 

What if you get a job and leave the school for later or get into a bed naked before going to the hall? Or have kids first and get married then? Does it really matter the order of these things we are supposed to do in life?

The worst or best of all. What if you never get one or two of those things. What if you never get  married? You never get the kids. You never get the title. Does it necessarily make you less happier or inferior than others?

I know a lot of people who got  the  title.who got the job. who got married. who got naked and got the kids. But they are still very unhappy. I think it's because they hurry up themselves, got married at a very young age and didn't take the time to wonder what they really wanted in life.

A lot of women got and still get married those and these days just because they think if they don't do it now or then , they won't never do it. What if you get married with someone who isn't what you need. We are all valuable people. No one is perfect. Don't get me wrong but if you get married once in life you got think it twice before doing it. 

It's your choice, your decision, your life but make sure you feel really comfortable with whatever you are doing now. I'd rather be alone than being with someone who makes me feel that way. Without the 8 cats of course. 

- So before you get ring. Get your smile on. 

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Just Say What you Want to Say!

Just SAY it! Whatever you have in mind! Whatever you have been keeping from someone!   The magic words are: "Hello" , "I'm sorry" , "I forgive you", "Thank you" "I love you", "Good bye", whatever phrase you really think about!

I think the worst sentences aren't the ones that weren't spelled correctly but Never said or read it all aloud. 

Waiting for the correct moment? The right time and place is HERE and NOW!

So whoever is reading this. "Hello to you!" "I'm really sorry" if I or someone hurt you and never had the courage or interest to ask for your forgiveness." "I forgive you" if you never received their forgiveness if you were the one to be forgiven. "I thank you" for giving me a few minutes of your time to be reading this. "I love you" from my heart just for actually caring for some stranger's thought like mine and giving you a beautiful sweet "Good bye."

You see how easy is to say it? It isn't as hard as to keep it for the rest of your magical or miserable life. C'mon! Just be honest with yourself by saying the truth to others. We live in a world full of lies, let's start making the difference by acting different from others liars. We all lie sometimes but don't make it a daily habit.

What about making being honest a mode! Let's be fashion! Let's be honest! That's the new tendency we should get out from the closet not only clothes! But the people who actually wear it making the difference. White clothes for a dark world full of lies. 

SPEAK NOW! Doesn't matter what others think about it, the only think that matters is how you really feel. Like the phrase says "The truth will set us free."

You can be sure that you will feel better after saying what you have to say and if you don't have nothing to say, don't say anything at all. 

So Open your eyes. Open your lips. Open your ears. Open your mind. And the most important... Open your heart.

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