I think The Main Problem 'Here and There' Starts When We have got Our Own 'Judgement' to bring it to the Court. Do you declare yourself, "Guilty or innocent"? Think it twice, After all What do you actually considered as an infidelity?
A Very 'Compromising and Revealing Photograph' taken at 'New Year's Eve' hugging cheek to cheek almost kissing with a Coworker? Seems like you guys really know how to make it out before and after work.
A 'Flirty' or 'Dirty Nasty Slutty' Text or Talk? A constant exchange of Looks, Fluids and Smiles? Shaking hands while are you giving your Phone number? A naked or provocative image sent? A kiss? A touch? One night Stand? Having date or two relationships at the same time? All this things that are not supposed to be happening if you are still dating or seeing someone else.
It is not who knows the truth but who shares it. The truth is relative for all of us with no exceptions for anybody.
I am not saying that every couple needs to be unfaithful. I am just saying most of the couples does at least once. But the funny thing is "If he or she does it once and is not exposed that might happen again in a short future of hours or days."
But What if We are still 'Nothing' now but We are Supposed to be meant to be 'Something' later... Cause We are Supposed to be feeling 'Everything'. Well in that case I am afraid to tell you but seems like your 'Everything' Sucks more than Your Own Soccer Socks!
- Love isn't "Blind but Stupid". There's not a 'Permanent' Blindness but a 'Fleeting' Vision.
All those "Love stories" you have heard seems to be not happening the exactly way they were told or maybe not happened at all. There are not 'Happy endings' how you have been told since you were a 'Kid'. There is Always 'Something' more behind those "Happily Ever After" Kiss Scenes. Fairy tales are legends because they are all fake after all. "Fidelity is a Myth Now." Seems like... Being unfaithful is the Current Fashion! The question is...
Are you fashionable or faithful?
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People these and those other days Lies and Cheats ALL the Time. If you think this phrase doesn't make any kind of sense, you are definitely lying to others but most to yourself or still living on 'Disneyland' . Do you still believe in fairies? Which would probably make you not the 'Dumbest' Person but the 'Happiest' Person in this room full of liars and pretenders. "A City of Angels that in a blink of an eye turned to be a Hell of Strangers."
Or all have gone 'Crazy Mad' or all have been Always living that way at all.
Cause in most of the cases of every 'damaged' relationship; There's Always One who lies and cheats and other who pretends he or she doesn't knows.
When We are called to be 'Under the the spot of lights' on stage to be judged and declare our own "Version of the most recent events". There is Always a Variation between the Order of the ' Current Facts' . Breaking News: It is not the same "What you think that happened. What Witnesses Saw that happened. What the Defendants Say that happened and What actually really happened at all.
That's when the justification defense starts being used. Blaming everyone but ourselves. There is always a reason for every act and as a consequence. Does it really matters who has the blame on it? I think a 'Couple failure' is for the both. Cause as long as I can remember a Couple is made by two. But seems like People doesn't remember how to count.
- When you are hungry. You usually go directly to open your kitchen fridge, doesn't it? And you make a clear observation of what it is inside? What happens when you open the door and there is nothing more than an empty stomach and a clean fridge. There's nothing there for you anymore. You have forgotten to buy your groceries. But that doesn't change the fact that you have to eat now, doesn't it? Tired of eating the same kind of junk food or with no food at all. You finally decide to eat outside.
That is a metaphorical example about what happens in most of the failed relationships infidelity cases. As people forget to do their own groceries they forget to figure it out their relationship conflicts too. They forget they'll be hungry not saving a piece of 'Something' for later. A piece of Comprehension, Faith, Support, Honesty, Quiet and Calm or LOVE. But Sometimes is the contrast what actually happens.
- What if it is your birthday? And you just feel like staying home and doing nothing. You don't want a Cake or a Party. You rather stay at your couch watching TV Comedies or playing X-BOX all day. What if someone without even asking you comes unexpectedly to your home, bringing all the Birthday Cake, Balloons, Crowd and Complete Party. I thought it was your damn Birthday not his or hers. He or She gave you 'Everything' when you expected 'Nothing' at ALL. There is no honest gratitude exchange. For some kind of reason you don't feel really into it. You are not happy. You are just sitting at your comfort zone and feeling "O.K." And thinking how you should have close the damn door or pretend there was no one home...
That is another option for what could have happened. When you give 'Everything' in a relationship to Someone who doesn't cares or didn't ask for it. Maybe he or she was complete satisfied being alone. It doesn't matter how much you try to change that situation if after a while there is probably no change maybe it is cause no one asked for it.
- Do you wanna be Frida Kahlo forgiving infidelities of your own Diego Rivera because you consider a different kind of 'Loyalty' from cheating over and over again?
So you decide if you take the Venom of the death or the Cure of the truth. Stop blaming others. Start looking for solutions. If there is no solution there is no problem to resolve at all. Let it GO and MOVE ON!
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