Bad Rainy Days or Good Morning SunShine Sunny Days!

Do you Want a Bad or Good Day?

It's all Up to you! You are your own God of Mood! You Have ALL the Power INSIDE to decide what kind of day you want to LIVE TODAY RIGHT NOW! (:

I know what you are thinking. You are thinking and excusing yourself to have a Great Day by saying: "There's a lot of things that happens without your concern or control." Maybe not the action but the reaction depends on you.  

- "How you gonna deal with it?" Life is messy and Love is messier.  But I bet your room is messier too. "Put in order your socks in your mind, doesn't matter how the situation sucks, you can Always find the way to organize your ideas and put yourself back in one piece." 

- Stop blaming others for the colors of your own under wear. "You're the One who should pick it. Don't pick it for someone else rather than yourself."  The World isn't Black and White. No one is Good or Bad. We're all here the same. The Same Human Nature of Making Mistakes. The difference is that most of us regret or hide them. But Only a Wise few choose to learn from them. 

- If Someone Said Something inappropriate about you to others or told you the kind of last thing you ever wanted to know on earth and totally could ruin your Perfect Sunny Day... Don't let it ruin it! 

"Good Morning, Sunshine! Wake up with the Right Feet!"  If There's gonna be a Storm, Let's Dance In The Rain!  

- "Learn to Forgive and Move on. Let Go What you Can't change. Be Optimistic about Everything in your Life. And Remember There's Always a New Day to Start All Over again." 

- "Don't Let Anything or Anyone Ruin your Day. If you don't use Sun glasses or an umbrella it's Up to you!"

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Positive Thinking! Lie to Yourself Until It Became True!

Think "Positive." Being "Optimistic" is an Art. 

You can train yourself to be Better Every Day. Being the "Best" Version of Yourself. You can start by little baby steps, you don't have to rush yourself. You Just have to Start from the very Beginning and Keep Moving Forward Until you Can't Stop! 

There's nothing worst than bringing up all your nightmares from your mistakes to bed before morning breakfast. Hate the Mistake. LOVE the LESSON! Wake up with the Right Foot!   Don't freak out if you have to lie to yourself "Just a Little Bit" to keep moving around! Cause All this "Small White Lies" can come true any minute!  Like trying to look your best in a daily basis when you go out from your house so that when you finally meet today that "Soul mate" of yours you've been waiting for... You don't look like trash!  

Doing ALL your homework on time so you can beat the Nerdy Einstein Brain of the Class and get better grades too!  Going to the gym thinking Someday you will Thank it to yourself when you look to the mirror and you feel like you are ready to make your own Cover Magazine! Or Start Dating again! Getting to Know New People and Letting New People Know you! Maybe you will meet someone really interesting enough to pass this time from the first and third date to to get a dozen dates more!  

The Only Thing is you need to be Positive and Optimistic to Every Little Moment in your Lifetime. LIFE is made of "Little moments" anyway! So Enjoy it! Try Harder! Learn Faster! Forgive Quickly! Travel to New Places! Know Different People! Smile brighter! And Kiss More Often!  :) 

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Begin Again. Could you Start All Over Again?

Start Again. Begin Again. From Zero to your Own Hero! Del Suelo al Cielo! 

Could you be that Brave to Start Over Again? 

You are the Most Important Person in this Whole World for Yourself. Does it sound "Selfish"? Selfishly Great! Let's Call It: "Your Own Personal Truth!"

You were born to be "Great", Not to Care What Others Think About You. Not to Please Everyone But YOUrself! 

So Start "Today" Push the "START" Button and Start All Over Again. But Let's Do the Things Right this Time. Is YOUr Life. YOUr time. YOUr own decisions and B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L Mistakes. I Can't Stop Standing Out the Beauty of making mistakes because is the Only Way to Learn from Life. Life is Beautiful. People Sometimes are not. But Let's focus in What Really Matters. "Whatever" makes you "Happy." Just "DO it." 

"Money, Friends, Romances, Relatives... Comes and Goes." The Only Thing that Stays in your Life. Is YOU. So Be "Good" to Others but First to "Yourself."

- Thanks God for giving me "Another Day." Another Day to Wake Up and Dream. To Forgive and Be Forgiven. To Fall in and Fall Out of Love. To Forget and Be Forgotten. For the Best and For the Worst. For the Right and the Wrong. For Everything and Nothing at ALL. 

Starting All Over Again Another Day "Just For me."

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Hero or Villain? Who Are You?

Are you The Hero or The Villain? 

Most of the Time you have to Choose Between being the "Hero Behind the Cape or the Villain Behind the Mask." The weapon or the Injury, The Killer or the Kill, the Perpetrator or Victim, The Illness or the Cure, The Gun or the Bullet. The main thing isn't what Others Think you are. Who Do you think you are? Who Do you Really Want to Be? 

- Honestly I think that "Maybe Sometimes We are a Little Bit of Either or Both." Who do you think is more guilty, Who killed the Cow or Who pulled the leg? 

So Serial Killer drop the Knife! And Start thinking back to those Old Memories. Just think deep about it. It was really your own fault? Did you hit her with your "Beautiful Lies" that you used to tell to the Other girls.  Like proposing to every female you know by Saying things "Omg! Do you want to Marry me?" or "What a Beautiful Smile! Why are you so gorgeous?" , Etc. And She finally found out and didn't say anything until it was too late? 

Or Wound Pink Princess from a recent Break-Up. Are you really that quite innocent from it? Didn't you do "Something" to Contribute to the War Where your love turned to be dead and lead to that Shakespeare Romeo and Juliet Final Death? Didn't you took the Venom first by yourself without notice to anyone? Ironically you can never hate who you came to really love but you can still hurt him or her or vice versa.

 The World moves by Love or Fear. They gonna Love you. Or Remember that Humans fear what they don't understand and try to destroy it.   

We can't save everyone. We can't kill everyone. We can't be Hero or Villain to everyone We Know. Sometimes They gonna Love or Hate Us Without Reason or for the Right or Wrong Kind of Reasons. It's Just the Way it is. You Can't Make Everybody Loves you and You Shouldn't Blame Yourself for it.  

- "You Will Always Be the Hero for Someone and the Villain for Someone Else."

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"Break Up" or "Make Up" ? What that's supposed to mean?

Wanna - "Break Up or Make Up" ? 

- What do you really want to do? The Word "Up" doesn't mean that the answer is going to fall down from the Sky! The answer is inside of you. Yeah, "Literally" inside those pants where the balls should be in or those lady gaga panties where your vagina may be Party rocking.

- Do you still love him or her?  - Do you still love it?  - Do you still love the Situation you are into? 

- How does the Situation Really Works for you? Is it  Really Right to Wake Up with "Every Single Morning" or Is it Really Wrong to Prevent you from Sleeping at night? 

I am not only talking about a Relationship with Someone. It could be a Relationship with yourself, with your Own style of living. What about a Relationship with your Work? A Relationship with your friends? A Relationship with your Coworkers? A Relationship with the Gym? A Relationship with your Own Body? A Relationship with your own Mind? The Real Relationship starts and ends with YOU. 

So you are the only ONE that gets to decide what you want in your Life. Don't get stuck with any situation that you don't want in it. This includes people, things, actions, places and "Whatever" makes you - Sick & Repulsive making you wanna Vomit and Throw Up! What are you waiting for? There's no more time to lose! You have Only Got One Life! Throw it A-W-A-Y! N-O-W! T-O-D-A-Y! For a Better TOMORROW and Forever and Always! 

LIFE is not a "Bed of Roses" So Wake Up and Smell the Coffee! You decide what you want to do. You are a Grown Up and that makes you to have the Magic Power to Change your Life So in The End You Could Say You Did the Best You Could For Your Own Good!  

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Can We Buy "Happiness" ?

Things used to be "easier" Before when we were just Kids discovering the World as astronauts or Rock-n Roll singers. You used to be Smiling with "NO Reasonable Reason" at ALL. Love every "little" thing about LIFE that seem "New" and "Special" just for being "Unknown" before and have just discovered it Today about it. 

But now "Everything" seems to be "Different". Could be that the World still is the same and we are the ones that has changed? 

- It seems like... We have forgotten what used to make us "Happy". We have being "bombarded" by marketing about buying "Happiness". Magazines, Radio, Television, Internet & Social media that tell us how "exactly" We should look, behave, act, think and what to have if we want to feel Really "Happy". 

So We started buying "expensive clothes" to Cover up our defects and "expensive clocks" like we could have more control of the time with them . Acting like "Hippies" Smoking Weed all day long to be "Cool" or "Yuppies" pretending to have ALL the answers to what Society demands for us to know. Starting Smoking at a "Pretty young age" to feel "mature" and "grown up" but really looking "Pretty Stupid" with cigarettes at the mouth. Texting like cyber robots to other galaxies and publishing every single act of every single day like We were freaking TV Stars of  a freaky TV Show Alive. Constantly Clubbing and Getting drunk and wasted every night. Having Wild Sex with random Strangers hit at the bar to have "One Night Stand" and a "Baby Stay Forever " later. "Condoms are more sell at the Pharmacies than Candies from the Candy Shops". There is no Party without those kind of "Balloons" Right now. So the party is full of fool Clowns now. 

Where is your Own Personality? It's inside your Closet or Out of it? Did you forget it at the Laundry? 

That is "exactly" What happens in the "Dating World". That person Who is Standing in front of you is the same person that was before you know him or her. But it seems like you don't recognized it anymore. The truth has always being in front of your eyes but your own perception about it was completely different. Maybe because you didn't really get it from the beginning and you started the journey too fast taking the wagon without making sure to know what your "exactly"  final destination was. You just wanted to feel "Young" and "Alive" and Just Love the adrenalin of not knowing Where you were going and Just following "the flow of people moving around" because you didn't want to stand there just "Looking" feeling like you get "Stuck" in no place at all. 

But the truth is "You have Got One Life for all your existence and One shot of doing "Whatever" you truly want to do, Go "Wherever" you truly want to go, Being "Whoever" you wanna be and Dating "Whenever" you feel is Right. So break your Fears, Chains and Walls and Fly! 

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"Friends with Benefits" Does It Really Benefit You?

"Friends with Benefits"  Where are the 'Benefits' at ALL? 

Is Like Playing "Hide" and "Seek". When There is "True Love" You Just Can't Hide it But When There is not, There is "Nothing" left to hide. So if We hide "Something" for Sure is "Not Love". 

- They call you "My Love" when no one else is looking and they call you "My Friend" when anyone asks about your existence role in their Life.   

-They kiss you when no one is around and they make their distance clear from you in public when their true friends and family are watching. 

- They will never tell you about the "Other girls" but they will get lost or missing for days and you know that they weren't in the "Hospital or Jail". If you are lucky that they didn't cancel you or saw you later after "getting laid", I meant "going out" with them. If they don't want to lie, they will just Skip the "Dirty Details" and Say they went out to make a girl "friend" a "Favor", but you can imagine "What kind of favor it was". If they talked about them they will called them as "My Friends". But the thing is... Do you Still Remember that...  Aren't you "Friends" too? 

- They text you saying that they "miss you" but the truth is that they are just "bored" at 3 a.m. when they get back from work and they don't reply you back when they get bored of you now and would say that they were "busy" working or had other things to do. This of course means "Anything Seems More Important than talking back to you". 

- "They will never commit to you as MUCH as you do". Asking for "Fidelity" or "Loyalty" is asking too much. In this Case Is like a Joke when you don't know whether you should Laugh or Cry.They will always look for the way to evade the situation or just change the subject. Let make this clear, Their Only Commitment to you "Starts and ends in the bed". The best thing or gift that they could ever give you is a really "Wild sex night" as diner because you will never see their face again for morning breakfast. 

- They will lie to you by making plans about the future that are just "delusions" about "Marriage" and "Kids" and "Taking the things Soon to the Next Level" because they feel ready to "Settle Down". But the truth is that seems like "Soon" is Never Coming and the Seasons are passing by and you're stuck in the Same Place you were Before with that "Wishful Thinking" Going to "Anywhere". 

- They will tell you that they had a dream with you last night and you will confess that you did too. You of course, will take it as a declaration of "True Love." He will meant that he had a "Wet dream" where you were "both naked in the bed". 

- They take you for granted. They will never See the "Real" you interesting enough to have a "formal relationship" because that takes "Time" and "Effort" and they want the Things "Easygoing" as a "Real" Hippie Smoking Weed did. In other words, "They Always want to get advantage of the Situation "Having Just the Benefits of a relationship without taking any of the responsibilities"  

- They will eventually tell you "Pretty Words" when they haven't heard from you for a while just to remember you that you are one of his personals "Cheerleaders" because he feels like he is the "Final Champion of the FIFA World Cup". And you of course will have crowned him as the "Prom King" but Where's your Crown? He hasn't invited you to the Prom, isn't he?

- They will try to justified themselves from not getting really involved into a "Serious Relationship" Saying that "They are Still too young" But the truth is that... "They Will Never Be Mature Enough Like Peter Pan did Because They Will Never Grow Up Even When Their Body Does..."  

After all The age is just a number but Maturity is a State of Mind... 

So NOW You Understand Why I have asked you, Where are the Real Benefits of this "Not Relationship" ?  I just don't get it. If you just wanna "Get Laid" and not have to Pay you Could Only have "One Night Stand" But you don't have to get involved in this kind of "Pretending" to be "Something" you are just not. Because who played with "Fire" at the end eventually gets burned. 

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