"The good" and "The Bad" Ones Vs "The Real" and "The Fake" Impressions!
Let me guess I am pretty sure this isn't the first time you look someone at the street and you automatically judge that person just by their appearance! It could be their looks made by their "outfit" that is just a combination of clothes that could be probably too much "fancy", "silly" or "slutty" enough to give you a first idea of who that person may actually be in the inside. We are the judges without the title of the outside. But you know what they say? "Don't judge the book by its cover or in this case by its looks or clothing!"What about when you aren't even looking? In this modern time we barely look up cause' we're too busy checking our cellphones! So sometimes we judge just by what we listen and let me tell you like they say... "Don't believe everything you hear, my dear!" Is really his accent going to tell you if he's worth your time to listen up? What about what other people say about that person? Is gossip always telling you the truth? Have you forgotten about that time someone made up a lie about you and everyone believed it and you got really mad cause' you knew it wasn't true?
I could easily write an article about "First Impressions" that's why I'm actually writing it! And what they really meant to me and to each one of us as part of the Society we are. First impressions are easy to make but tough to get through. After all the real deal is to make a "Good impression." Specially the very first time you met someone in your life. But let's be honest! We only really care if we want keep that person in our daily lives!
For example I still remember the First Time I went out with this Secretly Platonic Crush I had in College. I will never know if it was a date or not but what I do know is that it wasn't as successful as I thought because there wasn't a second one. I still remember I always wondered Why? The unforgettable question What I did wrong? It was something I said or didn't say? It was because I ordered pasta instead of salad? Maybe it was because my first impression with him wasn't as great as I thought. I will never know and it's probably a good thing. Because maybe deep inside of me I really don't want to know. Maybe it's okay to not know everything.
I should admit that sometimes I have made "Good Impressions" myself with people that haven't done the same with me or at least not to feel that kind of "Spark" that made you believe that person could be "The One." Even though I didn't like them as a couple, they've stayed in my life as friends and the ones that remained as strangers turned into lessons to remember you can't force your feelings over someone.
So let things fall into place in a natural way as it should always be. "If it's meant to be, It will happen and no one could change or avoid it! "
